How much PDA is too much ?
How much PDA is too much?
PDA (Public displays of affection) we all
know what PDA is and everyone has a different definition of what’s acceptable
when it come to public displays of affection some couples don’t like it, while
others are comfortable being all over each other wherever they are.
We see now a days a lot of young people are
in relationships so PDA is quite common and popular among the young generation
and it’s very normal for all of us to hug our friends or kiss our partners
openly in front of others, but if we say our previous generation or some of us consider
PDA as something vulgare so it’s very strange that how love offence someone?
Unfortunately, we have come to a place where
we think that a relationship means it must be body based their must be
something physical and biologically involved but biology is one part of us.
It’s not a question of right and wrong, it’s
not a question of morality, it’s just question of priority, what kind of
priority do you want to give to yourself and your partner.
It's about context. Think about where you are
and who's around. A decent principle guideline is whether you'd be content with
your grandparents viewing. Handholding might be fine, yet you likely wouldn't
enjoy overwhelming petting.
There is certain sanctity to relationship
specially body-based relationships if you don’t maintain that sanctity it will
become vulgarity after some time may be not to you but definitely to somebody
seeing it before you.
This make you wonder at
times, if love is an acceptable act then why is not it’s expression? Obviously,
the term ‘expression’ is subject to interpretation but there
should at least be an attempt made to define it! I think it’s safe to conclude
that holding hands, hugging and even slight pecks in public are completely
innocent. If these gestures make us all go mushy and ‘awww’y when
we see them on the big screen, then why not in real life? Of course, there is
always this question of ‘How much is too much?’ and it needs
to be tackled wisely. When the situation turns from romance to carnality… err…
does somebody need to get a room?
"When a Flower doesn't bloom, you fix the Environment in which it grows. Not the Flower."
Credit- VISHAL KUMAR
(VIBHU AGARWAL)
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