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Happy Friendship Day.

क्या दोस्ती सिर्फ मतलब के लिए होती है, क्या सिर्फ एक दूसरे को ठेस पहुँचाने के लिए होती है, या किसी से अपना काम निकल वाने के बाद खत्म हो जाती है। नहीं, ऐसा नही है। दोस्ती एक वो रिश्ता है जो 2 लोगो को साथ ज़िंदगी के वो पल बिताने की इजाज़त देती है जो आज के समय में इंसान को अपने आप नहीं मिल पाते। लेकिन आज के समय में दोस्ती के नाम पर एक कलंक सा लगता जा रहा है। आज के समय में, दोस्ती एक मतलब की रिश्तेदारी बनती जा रही है। आज के समय में लोग सिर्फ मतलब के दोस्त बनते हैं या बनाते हैं। लेकिन क्या आपने कभी सोचा है कि क्या होगा उस दिन जब आपकी एक बहुत गहरी दोस्ती टूट जाए। आज के समय में ये छोटी बात नहीं है, आज के समय में लोग हर दिन नए दोस्त बनाते हैं और हर दिन एक पुरानी यारी का अंत कर देते हैं। लेकिन वहीं दूसरे हाथ पर सोचिए, आज कल के समय में कुछ लोग ऐसे भी हैं जो दोस्ती को एक वही रिश्ता मानते हैं जो कि वो है, वे लोग उस दोस्ती की परिभाषा जानते है, जो उन्हें सच्ची में एक अच्छा दोस्त ही नहीं साथ साथ उन्हें एक अच्छा इंसान भी बनाती है। दोस्तो मेरा मतलब यहाँ किसी को दोष देना या किसी को गलत कहने का नहीं है। मै...

Love or Friendship ? Together or Not ?

Once a person asks What is good ? To have a Good Friends or being in a Relationship ? I replied, You can have a both, A good Friendship and a Healthy Relationship. But any one of them doesn’t make any problem in other. Because the day you step down from any responsibility then from that time you will start losing that either Friendship or Relationship. As both things needs Loyalty, Time, Attention and most important Trust. But we can’t say this to everyone. We know that everyone has different mindset, feelings and everything. We can’t force anyone to be a Good Friend until he/she not wants to be. Like that We can’t force anyone to be in a Relationship. It’s a thing that depends on your Feelings, On your ability to manage them, On your ability to manage the comments from Society. Everyone can’t manage both but if you are in a single term either in Relationship or in Friendship, be with full efficiency in it. And at last, Remember one thing always ...

Love or Career ? A Question for Everyone !

Love or Career, the most important topic in everyone’s Life. What’s the correct age to do these things? Is it is good to Love and to do work on your Career together? Is it is good from the view of Society? There are lot of questions arises timely on this topic. It is not bad to Love someone but It is also not good when you are not capable to make it good. We all know there’s no age prescribed for that. Neither in any Law nor in any religious books. But it depends on the Time, on your capability (not physical, but mental) and it depends on your attachment with someone else.  We can’t say is it is good or bad from the view of Society. In today’s time, the view of the society is depend upon your ability, behavior and also behavior and nature of your parents. If we talk about Love and Career together, so there’s no one to stop you to do anything. You can work on both at a same time but it’s upon to you that How you’ll manage both simultaneously. Sometimes, when parent...

Show your Ability to the World

Show your Ability. Show your Ability before anyone would steal it from You. This Life, The World, The Peoples and the whole Society. All we know that Everyone has a some talent in them, but in that some, some have a very good talent of to steal. They can Steal everything or say whole of you and then you will not be able to do anything that time. You can’t even sue them for that. You can’t even speak that time that the property is yours. All you need to do is improve your Mindset by Yourself. You’ve to find out the Talent in you by yourself Only. No one will help you. As I said earlier Hardly 1 % will be there to support you, So how will you suppose that they will help you to find Yourself.   My Brother, they will come Only to enjoy your discussion. Only! And when everything gets over then there you’ll find a empty hand. A group of Selfish peoples, A small lot of Demotivation only. But If you can convert that Demotivation into a Step of your Stairs then that...

Be the Leader of Yourself and make your story at your own.

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Yes, be the Leader of Yourself and make your story at your own. And once Shri JRD Tata Ji said “To be a leader you have got to lead Human Beings with affection.”  Just start thinking on your Idea. Find out it's pros and cons of it. Explore the Society and see the reaction of People. As I said before, you'll find that hardly 1% people are thinking to support you. Then what you are going to do? Any Idea ! Or you will think that if peoples are saying then it must be a foolish idea. Is I am right ? Maybe it will be a right answer because it's the Human nature or we can say rule of the world. In this world we believes in majority always. We thinks that if 99% are making joke of you which in their opinion means you can't do anything. Even you knows that idea is good. Everyone knows that लोग तो कहेँगे ही भई लोगों का काम हैं कहना, पर तुम्हारा काम हैं उन्हें सुन्ना और उन्हें इगनोर करना।  And if you thinks you can do it. Then don't wait. Go Do It. If that w...

YOU CAN WIN!

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YOU CAN WIN! Yes You Can Win. The First Motivation that only given by the Parents. YES YOU CAN WIN. Everyone knows if you are trying to do something Good. Their will many peoples were born immediately to criticize you, to stop you to go on your way. That’s the said reality of today’s life. But Instead YOU CAN WIN. You can win if you Believe in yourself. You believes in your ideas. You believes on your Foots, you believes on your foot that they are on the right track and at last You truely believes in the GOD. You Believes in God that He is with you at each and every point. And If you Believes in all then My Friend, No one in this World can stop you get your desired destination, Success. Yes, You Can Win. अगर आप अपने आप को अपने मुकाम के लिए अपने आप को पूर्ण समर्पित कर दें तो कोई भी आपको आपके मुकाम तक पहुंचने से नहीं रोक सकताA बस अपने आप पर धैर्य रखिए और पूर्ण निष्ठा के साथ आगे बढ़िए] और देखिए जो लोग आज आपको रोकने की कोशिशे कर रहें हैं] कैसे वो लोग आपकी जीत की कहानियाँ सु...